Aichaku and placemats
Thursday, April 20th, 2006
When my grandmother, the wife of a career naval officer, died I was deeply moved to inherit the dragon vase. Her children said that because they were always on the move, the only constants in their home were a much-loved leather-topped coffee table and the dragon vase, which was purchased in the 1920s when my grandfather was stationed in Japan. Whether they lived in Hawaii, Virginia, California or Louisiana, the dragon vase and the coffee table identified their living quarters as home. The dragon vase has what the Japanese call aichaku. Aichaku is a word made up of two characters: one meaning “love” and the other meaning “to adhere to.” It is my single favorite concept relating to the things that surround us.
Aichaku is the emotional patina that we develop with objects that we use. I once read a quote by a woman waxing poetic about her favorite jeans, “Every bit of fun I’ve had for the last ten years I had with these jeans on.” Those jeans have aichaku. Aichaku suggests that we have a relationship with the things we use that deepens over time.
At our home the nightly home-cooked dinner is a cherished ritual. So when my husband and I married we made each other a placemat out of scraps of fabric and a cloth napkin out of a random fat quarter. We eat dinner most nights off of those placemats and they have developed their own layers of aichaku. When our daughter was three, we suggested that she could choose some scraps and we would help her make a placemat and napkin (using the improvisational piecing technique in the Unfinished Business chapter of the Modern Quilt Workshop.) The quilting is really important on placemats so quilt densely to withstand the frequent washings. Pull them out of the dryer before they are totally dry and place them on a flat surface so they’ll dry flat (and you won’t have to iron them).



Placemats are an excellent project to make with kids and to use up our endless supply of scraps. The indigo placemats shown are made of scraps from the first quilt I ever made in 1987.

The pink/ green and blue placemats were from fabrics selected by our 4-year-old daughter. We did no editing and she takes tremendous pride in having made her own choices about the color.


The multicolored ones Bill and I made for each other right after we married ten years ago. Ten years of washings and look how great they still look! And if you’ve never had the habit of using cloth napkins, give them a try. We’re talking totally fun napkins made out of quilting fabric that can be folded straight out of the dryer and can withstand the messiest of eaters. Curious George napkins can make even the lousiest day a little cheerier. Cheaper than paper napkins over the long run, better for the environment, and long on aichaku.
































