The Craft of Letter Writing

The first letter I ever remember receiving was a beautifully illustrated letter from my grandmother that combined words and homonyms that were illustrated. There was a picture of a deer and then my name which as a 9-year old I understood as Dear Weeks. There were so many other charming picture and word combinations that I remember crying when I found out someone had thrown it away. Another of my favorite letters is one I received from a friend right after the September 11th terrorist attacks in the US. In lieu of the beautiful handmade Christmas cards he usually makes, he wrote individual letters to everyone he loved telling us what they meant to him and what he had learned from each of us. I was so touched by the letter I received that I read it over and over.
This is why I was excited to learn of Felicia Sullivan’s new challenge to encourage letter writing. For me the process of writing a letter is a bigger commitment of time and energy so I think more carefully about what I’m going to say. I don’t want the letter to look sloppy so I have to slow down so my penmanship conveys the sincerity of my thoughts.
The most meaningful letters I exchange right now are with the foster family in China who took care of our adopted daughter for the first 300 days of her life. They write to us once every year or two in Chinese and we have a friend translate their letter to us and our letter back to them. Although someone else has to write the Chinese part, I save the English translation and the English version of the letter I write in a handbound book so we have a record of our correspondence. Usually we send a small photo album with pictures of our daughter and have our daughter, who is now 5 write a sentence or two and draw a picture. I cherish each of the letters we receive as well as those we send because I know their family will open our letters with as much excitement as we open theirs.
Whether or not you participate in this letter-writing challenge, I hope you will take a moment and write someone a letter this week–not just so they can receive it but also because it feels so good to send it.
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April 3rd, 2007 at 12:44 pm
i will participate. i love writing letters (and receiving them). so much more personal than email!
April 3rd, 2007 at 1:22 pm
Another often overlooked advantage to letter writing is that it is truly a viable way not only of communicating to the persont o whom you’re writing, but it often illuminates thoughts, ideas and feelings/realizations one has that they previously didn’t realize. So - oddly enough, it’s a two-fold experience; and that’s just for the writer!
Imagine the gift of love and friendship (or ire, if that’s the case) that so much more clearly comes across through one’s penmanship, he flow of the hand-written words and punctuation, color of ink, type of wiritng instrument, paper, etc. etc. as opposed to simple email! No contest!
April 3rd, 2007 at 3:02 pm
thanks for the reminder weeks, letters are a great gift.
April 3rd, 2007 at 8:15 pm
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April 3rd, 2007 at 11:17 pm
This is great! Just last week I was wanting to do a personal “do something every day” challenge in April and decided that letter writing would be my challenge. A hand written letter each day. Granted I am already 3 days behind but my 4/1 and 4/2 letters are planned in my head. This is the inspiration I needed to get going! Thanks.
April 9th, 2007 at 7:57 am
I’ve been pen paling for years now, at least 7 and I love it.